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Love Truth, Not Applause

Beloved, I say this with love in my heart and concern for your soul: not every word that comforts is from God, and not every truth that stings is from the enemy. Sometimes, the voice that unsettles us the most is the one we need to hear. In a world obsessed with applause, God still calls His children to love truth not applause.

Truth has never been popular. From the days of the prophets to the ministry of Yeshua, those who spoke God’s Word plainly were rarely applauded. They were rejected, misunderstood, even hated—not because they lacked love, but because they would not compromise. We must remember: truth is not the enemy of love—it is the foundation of it.

Paul’s warning to Timothy was not a prediction for a distant generation; it is our reality: “For the time will come when people will not tolerate sound doctrine, but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance with their own desires” (2 Timothy 4:3, NASB). Many today gather in crowds to hear what pleases them, but few sit at the feet of Jesus to hear what purifies them.

As a shepherd who longs to see you grow in grace and walk in fullness, I plead with you—do not despise the voice that confronts your sin. Do not run from the correction of the Lord. Every pruning, every rebuke, every uncomfortable truth is an act of holy love. Our Father disciplines those He receives as sons (Hebrews 12:6, NASB). To be corrected is not to be cast out—it is to be drawn in.

If a doctor saw cancer in your body but withheld the diagnosis to spare your feelings, would you call that love? No. It would be cruelty disguised as kindness. And yet this is what many pulpits offer—harmless words while sin quietly devours the soul. Beloved, the Word of God is not sentimental—it is surgical. It cuts in order to heal, wounds in order to restore.

“For the word of God is living and active and full of power… piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit… exposing and judging the very thoughts and intentions of the heart” (Hebrews 4:12, AMP). When you read His Word and feel conviction, do not harden your heart. Fall to your knees. Let the Great Physician do His work.

There is a tenderness in truth that only those who love God can recognize. Yeshua never spoke to impress; He spoke to save. When He looked at the rich young ruler and said, “Sell everything you own,” it was not a cruel demand—it was an invitation into freedom. But the young man walked away, clinging to comfort instead of clinging to Christ (Matthew 19:16–22). What will you choose?

As your brother in the Lord, I urge you: let go of the need to be liked. Release the addiction to approval. Seek the face of God, not the applause of men. The path of obedience may be lonely at times, but it is paved with peace, joy, and the abiding presence of the Holy Spirit. The crowd may never understand, but your Shepherd will never leave your side.

Moses spoke to God face to face

When Jeremiah tried to hold back the Word of the Lord, he could not. “His word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones… I cannot hold it in” (Jeremiah 20:9, NASB). That is what happens when we love truth more than comfort. We burn with it. We ache to speak it. And we find that in the end, truth does not isolate—it liberates.

So, dear one, ask God for a heart that welcomes His truth. Surround yourself with voices who speak it, even when it cuts. Open His Word not only for promises, but for correction. For “the wounds of a friend are faithful” (Proverbs 27:6, NASB), and there is no greater Friend than the One who laid down His life to rescue you from lies.

Let my lips not speak the flattery of fools,
Nor my heart chase the praise of the proud.
Teach me to rejoice in rebuke, O God,
And tremble before the words of Your mouth.
For Your truth alone is my safety and light.

Prayer

Abba Father, we come as children who often resist what is good for us. Break the power of people-pleasing in our hearts. Deliver us from soft lies and lead us into the light of Your Word. Teach us to love truth even when it is hard, and to trust Your voice above every other. Speak to us clearly, lovingly, and directly—and give us the courage to obey without delay. Let Your truth dwell richly within us, transforming us day by day. In the name of Yeshua, the Faithful and True One, amen.

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Pastoring a Congregation: Guiding, Teaching, and Nurturing Through the Holy Spirit

Pastoring a congregation is a divine calling, a sacred responsibility entrusted by God. It is much like raising children in the Lord, yet the task is not one to be undertaken in human strength alone. As we shepherd the flock of God, we must recognize that it is the Holy Spirit who empowers and guides us. Our role is to be faithful vessels through which God works, allowing His power to manifest in the lives of those we lead.

Teaching and Preaching with the Spirit’s Power

Imagine a seasoned pastor standing before his congregation, Bible in hand, delivering a message that cuts to the heart. The words he speaks are not his own; they are given to him by the Holy Spirit. He knows that true transformation in the hearts of his listeners comes not from eloquent speech, but from the Spirit’s power.

As the Apostle Paul wrote, “My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, so that your faith might not rest on human wisdom, but on God’s power” (1 Corinthians 2:4-5). When pastoring a congregation, it is crucial to rely on the Holy Spirit to bring understanding and transformation through the Word. Pastors are called to preach the Word in season and out of season, reproving, rebuking, and exhorting with complete patience and teaching (2 Timothy 4:2). This is not done through human wisdom but through the power of God, who works through us to accomplish His purposes.

Guidance and Discipline with Patience and Long-Suffering

Consider a father patiently guiding his child as they learn to walk, each step shaky and uncertain. The father’s hands are ready to catch the child when they stumble, and he encourages them to try again, knowing that growth takes time.

Similarly, pastoring a congregation requires patience and long-suffering. As Peter exhorts, “Shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you” (1 Peter 5:2). Spiritual growth is a process, and each member of the congregation progresses at their own pace. Like the father guiding his child, pastors must be ready to catch their congregants when they stumble, offering grace and encouragement as they continue on their spiritual journey. It is through the Holy Spirit that we are equipped to exercise this patience and provide the necessary guidance.

Modeling Christlikeness by God’s Grace

Picture a mentor leading by example, demonstrating Christlike behavior in every aspect of life. Their actions speak louder than words, showing others what it means to follow Jesus.

Paul’s exhortation to the Corinthians rings true for pastors: “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1). In pastoring a congregation, modeling Christlikeness is paramount. This is not achieved by human effort alone but through God’s grace working in and through us. As Philippians 2:13 reminds us, “For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” By living out our faith, we show our congregations what it means to follow Christ, relying on the Holy Spirit to lead us in every area of life.

Nurturing Spiritual Growth with the Spirit’s Comfort and Personal Attention

Envision a gardener carefully tending to each plant in their garden, knowing that each one requires different care to thrive. Some need more sunlight, others more water, and all require the gardener’s attention to flourish.

Similarly, pastoring a congregation involves nurturing each member’s spiritual health. As Paul explains in Ephesians 4:11-13, Christ gave pastors and teachers “to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ.” This nurturing is done through the comfort and power of the Holy Spirit, who sustains and grows the faith of each believer. Moreover, just as the gardener gives personal attention to each plant, pastors must offer individualized care to their congregants. This may involve one-on-one counseling or mentoring, providing guidance tailored to each person’s unique spiritual needs. The Holy Spirit empowers us to provide this care, ensuring that every member is supported in their journey of faith.

Creating Good Spiritual Habits: The Role of Discipline and Celebration of Milestones

Think of an athlete training for a marathon, diligently running each day to build endurance. Over time, the daily practice becomes a habit, and the runner’s strength and stamina increase, leading to success on race day.

In the same way, developing good spiritual habits is crucial for both pastors and their congregations. Paul advises in 1 Timothy 4:7-8, “Train yourself to be godly.” Just as the athlete trains physically, pastors must encourage their congregations to engage in daily spiritual disciplines such as prayer, Bible reading, and service. A practical way to establish these habits is by committing to a 30-day challenge, knowing that consistent repetition can help these practices become ingrained in daily life. The Holy Spirit empowers believers to grow in these disciplines, leading to lasting spiritual growth.

Furthermore, just as an athlete celebrates milestones in their training, pastors should celebrate spiritual milestones within the church, such as baptisms, confirmations, and personal testimonies of growth. These celebrations encourage the congregation to continue pursuing their faith with joy and dedication, recognizing the progress made in their spiritual journey.

Intercessory Prayer for the Congregation

Imagine a mother praying fervently for her child, her heart burdened with love and concern. She knows that her prayers can bring comfort, protection, and guidance to her child, even when she cannot be physically present.

Intercessory prayer is a vital aspect of pastoring a congregation. James 5:16 exhorts us to “pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” As pastors, we are called to lift our congregants up in prayer, interceding for their spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being. This prayer support is crucial, as it invites God’s power and guidance into the lives of the church members, strengthening the overall spiritual health of the congregation.

Creating a Safe and Nurturing Environment

Consider a teacher who creates a classroom environment where students feel safe to express themselves and ask questions. The teacher sets boundaries, fosters respect, and ensures that each student is treated with care and dignity.

Pastoring a congregation involves creating a spiritually safe space where growth can occur. Proverbs 27:23 reminds us to “know well the condition of your flocks, and give attention to your herds.” As pastors, we must protect our congregations from harmful influences, false teachings, and divisive behavior, ensuring that the church is a place of love, support, and sound doctrine. By fostering this environment, we help our congregations thrive in their faith, growing into the fullness of Christ.

Pastors Need Shepherds Too

Imagine a seasoned pastor who, after years of faithful service, finds refreshment and guidance from a trusted mentor. This mentor provides wisdom, encouragement, and accountability, helping the pastor to stay grounded and effective in ministry.

It is vital to recognize that pastors themselves need to be pastored. Proverbs 11:14 says, “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.” Just as pastors care for their congregations, they need trusted, loving leaders who can provide spiritual guidance and support. Hebrews 13:17 also reminds us to “obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls.” Having a mentor or spiritual advisor ensures that pastors are cared for as they care for others, helping them to remain strong in their own walk with God.

Conclusion

Pastoring a congregation is a divine calling that mirrors the responsibility of raising children in the Lord. It requires teaching, guiding, modeling, and nurturing the church community, all through the power of the Holy Spirit. By exercising patience, providing personal attention, celebrating milestones, engaging in intercessory prayer, and creating a safe environment, pastors can lead their congregations toward greater spiritual maturity and a closer walk with God. As pastors rely on the Holy Spirit and receive guidance from trusted leaders, they can effectively shepherd their congregations, helping them to grow in faith and live out the truths of Scripture in their daily lives.

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